So I dont think I've made some things clear so I'll give a little history, my ex showed up out of the blue during my 5th - 6th grade year of school and slowly we came together as friends then when we were 11 I asked her out she said yes.
Funny thing is i asked her out with a note kinda like the country song and we kept it under wraps til high school then when we turned 16 we were joking around on our way to my house on night an I proposed to her on a hill, it shocked her and she racked me so I rolled a little down a hill.
Later in life we married at 21 from there we lived together and had a kid together, so around our 29th birthday our marr